Nursing home as helper

Today my first day of helping in nursing home. All old folks, some stroke(paralyze) , dementia(memory loss) , parkinson(movement affect) .. They all are so cute.. Never contact to that kind of patient before. Especially dementia patient, they will keep repeating the same question over and over again, I love it when they are enjoying n laugh in the conversation. Can't imagine one day I'm one of the victim there. They sometime can make us speechless but also sometime of their innocent behavior can also make us feel happy. 

Can you imaging yourself one day you wake up from hospital and you can't more around with your limbs or u just can't remember for the past???

I feel ,how they feel.. I'm really thankful that I can walk, run,think.. For them it's like very useless, but they are not feeling negative because all the sad thing they experience can easily forget, all they can do are eat, exercise, watch tv, talk , and sleep. 

A simple compliment that is always helped everytime!

How to Manage Money

My first to attend speech/talk voluntary. Because managing money is a interesting topic. We should/must know how to manage cause money is so important in our life through out future. 

1. Think wisely, whether you WANT or NEED a thing before consider to buy.

Eg, You hang out for a movie, while waiting movie to start, you walk around shopping mall and you saw something catch your sight which you want to buy it so badly. Tips:You need to set your mind, you can catch your movie first, Well if after movie your mind is still thinking about the stuff you can just go on pruchase. Some person don't because normally after doing other thing, we'll often forget about the stuff we saw that you WANT it badly just now. That can save up a lot money.

2.Money Tracking

You really need to know where your money goes(spending) . Money comes slow but goes off fast. You need to record down where do you spend it. This is one of the basic, if you want to save money. There are many apps for Spending* You have to become a habit for this.

3.Minimum save up 10% or 30% income a month. 

The accumulation of the few percentage that you save up . Actually quite a lot. 

4.Car

There are advantage and disadvantage over new car and used car. Advantage over new car is less maintenance ,new-new, but disadvantage is EXPENSIVE. Advantage over used car is cheap but many of maintenance. Every one do have their own dream car. For me, is not advise you to buy your dream car. The most important is car which can bring you one place to another that's enough. 

5.Loan

Is best to paid your loan as fast as you clear all because the longest you delay the more amount you have to paid. According to government, if you clear your PTPTN earlier you got 20% discount. Don't look down of the 20% that can save up a lot money.

so, hope that can help you :)

Female and male can be just best friend?

Do you think that's possible happen to guys and girls very close together and that nothing related about crush.. Cause majority said that when a guy interesting to that girl they will trying hard to get attention from that girl and start to stay closer to her. From my point of view if a guy suddenly chat with me n like everyday I really think that possible to be just best-friend.. I think that's the cooler things ever happen in friendship...  

We all know that same sex can be best friend.. But why not happen between male n female? There's  no rules about not possible right? Like who don't want to be simple ? If most of the people are living with simple mind, there won't be happening of complicated life.. All human can avoid is trying to get the simpler life and enjoy meeting people like nobody business,& improving social-friendship. 

All I want to focus now is making friend/best friend around my social life.. That's the basic need in my life now!! If you don't have the basic I think you are no qualification to think about relationship. Handle a relationship or another half really have so much responsible to take.  Everyone have the limit.. If you think you are ready for it go on.. But if you are not ready just forget about being in relationship.. Because you also don want to end up a relationship and lose one of the favorite friend or best friend right? Isn't fair for anyone's!!! 

Reblog : Man VS Boy

Recently I had read a blog about man vs boy. She is intelligent, beautiful , gorgeous... And what she wrote on this post I think is very true a perspective from a girl/women who understand between boy and man.. We're often contradiction between man and boy... Here you read this and can help you to see the guy you know are a man or a boy.. 

1. A man knows what he wants, and goes for it. A boy may have somewhat of an idea, but not really. He doesn’t think too much about it, and even if he does, doesn’t exert much effort to get it. A boy is passive, a man is assertive.
2. A man plans for his future and is working towards building a foundation and infrastructure in order to have a family (at some point in his life).  A boy lives only in the moment and his plans are mostly around which bar he’s going to hit up on the weekend.
3. A man looks for a woman with intelligence, who is supportive, grounded and encompasses a shared set of values when choosing a partner. A boy cares mostly only for girls who are hot, wild and exciting.
4. A man knows a good woman when he meets one and will take initiative to get to know her. A boy may make an attempt if you’re lucky, but gives up before ever really trying.
5. A man has the courage to have uncomfortable conversations. He is honest with his intentions and lets people know where they stand. A boy avoids. He ignores confrontation or any serious talks about feelings. Instead of dealing with a situation, he runs away from it or creates drama or excuses to mask the fact he’s not that into you or a relationship.
6. A man knows when to invest in a woman and jump in with two feet. A boy is always “testing” – he doesn’t fully commit because he never knows if he is quite ready. But the truth is, because he is a boy, regardless of who he meets, he will never be ready due to the stage of life he is in.
7. A man knows how to have a good time and be social, but is often busy making strides in his career and building his life. A boy is getting crunk with his buddies at the bar every weekend.
8. A man takes the time to reflect on the type of man he wants to be, the example he wants to leave and the vision for his life. He has put thought into his values. A boy has not established his moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent.
9. A man has integrity. He means what he says, and says what he means. He has follow through and actions his promises. And if he can’t he has the guts to tell you why. A boy makes promises but doesn’t follow through.
10. A man is afraid of rejection but will put himself out there anyway. A boy is afraid of rejection and acts passive so that his pride and ego won’t ever get too banged up.
11. A boy plays games. A man doesn't.

So...are you?

Publika

Having some nice good friend who willing to fetching you here and there are a good friend :) Exploring the whole world is a job that never going to stop until old. We will meeting many kind of people. Having many kind of fun.. One thing that never change is knowing those good friend and never leave you alone. Hahah. 

Publika is a very nice place for high tea. I really never expect there have so many food shop too. I had went to the Plan B and Wondermilk for lunch there. It was awesome...Especially people who took me pic there.. I like people who took picture of me.. Nowadays I don't prefer camwhore of my self. 

This July I have been out like everyday!! Is everyday... I jus finish my 3week of sem break and feeling guilty of spending too much and over budget... But one thing that I always keep on my mind is money gone can earn back, but if fun is gone there's nothing we can do.. So live life on present is a must.. 

-Don't wait until chances gone only start to regret.. Maybe future might wait you but there are something call the pass do not wait you.. 

Recently like to think some of own creating quote.. People who create quote are always very inspiration.. 

-WonderMilk cupcakes.. Can say that this is my first time trying .. Yummy 

-Plan B restaurant.. The prefect lightning of the table and the food :P 

-WildCat in the town ..meowwww 

Insomnia plus nightmare

Final exam tomorrow onwards, two week... I have a bad insomnia yesterday, almost awake all the time on bed. I try to clear my mind , even count sheep but count until 80something I forget how many I count, then I try listen song.. But worst is I listen and digest with the lyric together, which I am not resting my mind also. After an hour I close my mp3 and continue with the quiet environment.. I think I hav dream... Is my nightmare!! The dream is about "A principle come and tell me that I fail 3subject so I have to drop sem immediately."  I am scare of meeting principle.. I have a similar case when I was studying in Assunta.. Hahah..

I now studying in this currently college, result was fine than fine. Clear all the paper.. I am aiming the CGPA more than 3.0.. I wish I can dream something nice and not the nightmare.. Okay,time to be my sleeping beauty :) 

Advantage of being a single

Wonder what kind of girl I am in your perspective. People first impression of mine is thought I am mix country girl, don't know how to speak Chinese, quiet, polite and so on.. 

I treat people good, I don't say rude word, very sensitive, like romance... But I have no idea why my relationship won't more than few year.. Isit my personality problem? Or I am way too good? Hahah..

Never make a mistake again , learn from my self:

•Do not make any promise that you don't even take the responsibility of how serious is your promise can meant to girl.. 

•Sincere, honest is a must, girl would like the true more than a lie *100000 times.

•Everyone will did the wrong mistake, if your partner is loving you, they will always forgive you no matter how serious is the problem.. 

•(Talk like a best friend, argue like a children) many people would  jealous this kind of relationship if you are one of them....  jealous😈. 

• Give some personal life to each other. If you always too close to your partner, one day you will face a problem is "fed up".. Because your partner know everything of you.. I didn't meant the way that knowing your partner well is bad.. But let's give some space to breath so that the feeling between can keep fresh.. 

• Giving surprise.. A simple surprise can make both relationship closer and happy.

• Talk joke.. Nothing is more important to maintaining a happy silly relationship. 

Relationship give us feel like support and relax.. Not those pressure or bored.

Ladies and gentleman appreciate the one who beside you. 

For single ladies and gentleman :

  Don't be upset or unhappy that no one likes you or love you.. There will be someone out there waiting for you. I promise there will be one for you.. Be patient of waiting the right one for you okay? You not old and you still young, don't feel sad to be single.. Because single got the most advantage than being in a relationship.. :D <3

Phone I wish to buy

Dreaming to have a HTC one smart phone. I have been observe which phone the best... Lets see, the most common phone on the street either iPhone or sumsung right? Having a most common phone in the world really not special for me. Ok right sumsung win iPhone with the large screen size and megapixel of camera.. But that one also not attracting me to buy.. Sumsung phone has a very very sensative screen which sometime will make you piss off.. Haha joking. It just too sensative for me. Which I don't like it. 

I don't know much about HTC Phone but so far I didn see any bad comment about that brand too. 

I like the cover of htc.. So cool!!! 

Come to the end of dreaming, I still wish one day I can buy my future phone.. I won't  simply buy a phone, if want to buy a phone I will buy the expensive one. Now, I'm still using a keypad Sony Ericsson phone.. I'm quite proud of it cause most people are changing to full touch screen phone edi. But what a outstander of mine😆 haha

Immature loves vs mature loves

Mature love are always the most stronger than immature love. Guys who age around 18 to 22 they ain't mature enough to handle a relationship. What they need for their age is study, enjoy , less experience, less stress etc... If they have a relationship on that age, also won't last long. Because what important for them now is to concentrate study.. So they can find a better job and earn more money... Then only they feel its time to find a partner after that.. Because guys self esteem is very strong, if they can't give the best of the another half they rather give up more than keeping by side because no point of keeping, it will harm both side. They don't wan to harm their another part so just give up relationship. Once the guy is success on work only they are confident to keep the another half by side.

I experience 2type of relationship,

 1st- totally immature, don't know what is love

2nd- partial mature, know what is love but wrong timing in a relationship. 

I think this is part of life,no pain no gain. Without experience of live you won't be mature. 

Friend, relationship, enemy

From secondary until college. I have never being single more than 1 year... Really, being in a relationship is that important in my life now? I have to consider about this. 

That's sound nice to hear that you are in a sweet relationship, but at the same time there is sound sad to hear that you are break up. Look, it is true experience of mine.. 

What is the point of getting together and break? Is it that everyone have to experience it by our self?Really no that kind of true love exist in my life? It is easy to being a relationship,but hard time after break.. It is easy to meet a friend, but is not easy to be unfriend. It is easy to be enemy, but do we have to be like that? 

I think I want to be single and unavailable.. So won't get hurt, and can enjoy life being friend with anybody I like. 

Enemy? Nah, I don like to have any enemy in my life. 

How many happiness we can actually hold longer? Haha I think I doesn't matter anymore. Relationship is so troublesome, complicated, messy...it is also like a game,who quit the game and that's whose loss. 

Is all these thing is a stress? Maybe or maybe not.. Depend.. Hahah gonna concentrate preparation for exam. Just wanna take a break of doing my own thing.. YOLO-You Only Live once😊

What my puberty?

It is been long time I never post my own blog. There are so much changes in life.all are inside my mind which is not enough to type out everything. I wish all the memory can be like a video to pull back so I would not miss out every single thg. But here is our life. The fact of living on the earth. The fact of facing people.. Officially being a single lady is not bad. Whao, sound like quite long never be single again already. But this time is good to be so I can relax,go anywhere I want, meet anyone I like, I'm the time of controller... Now is the time to enjoy life rather than miss out the youth of my life. People grow old every year. And within a year there will like million thg to happen on the life. Time never stop, life still goes on...😃 Doing good in my study.. Can't imagine I'm doing physiotherapy to treat patient... The day of begin a professional is a long journey... Don't aim for so far, just enjoy what you are doing now..

 

This is my puberty, where is your? Taken on the same shopping center toilet... Many people did took photo at here too. My look is not prefect like Models, but the unique look of my own. I will be curious of how is the way people look like, but I ain't judge people look. I can say it is a gene, a ovum, a sperm to combine and form us... 😉

Recently obsess with instagram. I like my instagram. I loves myself!

Keep moving forward!!!

I have to introduce you some nice meaningful movie. But is a Disney cartoon movie. I had never watch something interesting and funny cartoon until i watch this "Meet The Robinsons"

I know people that mature they already get rid of cartoon show very early.. But this is different from what I had watched. Can say that, this movie give me motivation that 'keep moving forward' for what we're doing currently or the our future .... Yes right, we wouldn't know what is happening next so we should looking forward . Here a quote I wanna share: 

" We don't look backward for very long, 

We keep moving forward,

 opening up new doors and doing new things,

 because we're curious and curiosity keep leading up down new paths." 

yes after I watching this i start understand that, our life is in our hand is something do with our future and  what we're doing now, learning and working.I always get an excuses and lazy to not be done the work. No one is born to be genius like Sho Yano. He is totally a gift from heaven.. nothing that impossible for make it done by you you you. It just need your curiosity to done all the work. To make experience is to make closer to your conclusion you got it? hahahah..To check the words to make you understand the sentences. Never give up on find the answer is close to your success. ;)